Category Archives: Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D.

Appearances Are Deceiving

by Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D. As I was watching yet another season of the Bachelorette last night, I found myself wondering, why am I watching this again? It’s the ninth season of the Bachelorette, not to mention all of the seasons … Continue reading

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Control

by Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D. We all have a sense that we can control or have power over everything and everyone in our lives. I often talk to parents who feel tremendous guilt and anxiety when their children do not behave … Continue reading

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In the Moment

by Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D. Today’s blog is a challenge for everyone reading (myself included) to pick a half an hour each day to do only one thing at a time. That means: 1. You cannot check your e-mail while waiting … Continue reading

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Be Assertive Sooner Rather Than Later

by Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D. Today I was in a situation in which I was forced to be assertive and it was really tough. I found myself feeling anxious in anticipation of the interaction, feeling nervous while engaging in the interaction, … Continue reading

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Things That I Have Learned From My Clients

by Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D. It is generally assumed that throughout the course of a therapeutic relationship, the therapist is focused on helping his/her clients and that the client receives all of the benefit from the interaction. However, throughout my career … Continue reading

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The Price of Happiness

by Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D. I am a sucker for a good sale. I can’t resist. I have a hard time sitting with the possibility that I might be missing out on a good deal. As you can imagine, despite my … Continue reading

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Who Will You Be This Halloween?

by Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D. Today is Halloween—the day that you can be anyone or anything you want to be. Tonight, anyone who feels weak and ineffective can become a superhero. Someone who is insecure about his/her physical appearance can dress … Continue reading

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Sweating the Small Stuff

by Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D. The other night I was watching TV and one of the character’s husband was dying of cancer. Needless to say the woman was having a difficult time coping with her husband’s illness and began growing frustrated … Continue reading

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Let’s Get Physical

by Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D. We all know that we need to exercise to stay healthy but many of us do not get enough physical activity to maintain a healthy lifestyle. We make resolutions, join gyms, and buy exercise equipment but … Continue reading

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Ten Things I Hate About Me

by Ricky Hornblass, Ph.D. Lately, it seems like our society is obsessed with being perfect. Everytime I open a magazine there is a story about a celebrity having plastic surgery to fix an already attractive feature or advice on how … Continue reading

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